When was the last time you held onto a grudge in a relationship? Maybe it was over something small, a forgotten anniversary, a thoughtless comment, or a missed important event. Most of us have been there, letting these little hurts pile up like rocks in our pockets, gradually weighing us down.

Here’s what I’ve come to understand about forgiveness: it’s not about pretending the hurt never happened. It’s about choosing to put down the rocks. When we cling to resentment, we’re actually handing over our peace to something that’s already behind us.

Forgiveness doesn’t mean saying what happened was okay. It means deciding it won’t dictate your future. It’s realizing that everyone, including ourselves, is perfectly imperfect. We all make mistakes, say things we wish we hadn’t, and sometimes let down the ones we love.

The real power of forgiveness in relationships isn’t just about mending old wounds; it’s about creating space for new joy, deeper understanding, and stronger connections.

Today’s Peace of Wisdom can be found when we let go of resentment and forgive.