Today’s Peace of Wisdom Can Be Found When We Choose to Listen Long Enough to Make Someone Feel Truly Heard
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Writers
What Great Writers Know About Writing
By Tami Nantz
In December of 1959, C.S. Lewis sat down to answer a letter from a young writer named Thomasine who asked him for advice.
Lewis offered eight suggestions—everything from turning off the radio to reading good books to making sure you actually know the meaning of the words you use. He also advised writing “with the ear, not the eye,” hearing every sentence as though it were being read aloud.
It got me wondering. What would happen if we put Lewis in a room with some of the other great writers of the last century or two? Would Hemingway agree with him? What about Steinbeck? Twain? Orwell? Stephen King? Jerry Jenkins? Would J.K. Rowling walk in, look at everybody’s list of rules, and promptly tell them to throw the whole thing away?
As it turns out, maybe.
Because when you start digging into what some of the world’s best-known writers have actually said about writing (not the quotes Pinterest says they said, but advice we can actually trace back to them), you discover something interesting.
They don’t all agree. But they agree a lot more than you might expect.
Listen to what you write.
Lewis’s advice to “write (and read) with the ear, not the eye” immediately jumped out at me because this is my favorite way to edit. I read my work out loud. A lot. There are things my eyes will skim right over that my ears catch immediately—a sentence that’s too long, a word I’ve used three times without realizing it, a rhythm that’s off, or something that simply doesn’t sound like something an actual human would say.
Apparently, Lewis was onto something. And he wasn’t the only one.
John Steinbeck offered almost the same advice specifically about dialogue: “If you are using dialogue, say it aloud as you write it.” His reasoning was simple: that’s how you know whether it actually sounds realistic.
I’ve found the same thing to be true even when I’m not writing dialogue. Reading something out loud forces you to experience the words in a way you don’t when you’re simply scanning them on a screen. If I stumble over a sentence I’ve written, there’s a pretty good chance my reader will too.
Sometimes your ears are simply better editors than your eyes.
Remember who is on the other side of the page.
Steinbeck had another piece of advice I love: forget the enormous, anonymous audience you’re imagining and write to one person.
He warned that thinking about a “nameless, faceless audience” could be intimidating. Instead, he suggested choosing one person (real or imagined) and writing to that person.
That makes so much sense to me. The minute we start writing for a large audience, something can happen. We stop talking and start Writing—with a capital W. Suddenly we’re trying to sound profound or clever or, and this is the worst, writerly.
But one person? We know how to talk to one person.
And perhaps that’s one reason the best writing often feels less like someone addressing a crowd and more like someone pulling up a chair.
Find the right word. Then get rid of the ones you don’t need.
Mark Twain understood the importance of choosing exactly the right word. In an 1888 letter to George Bainton, Twain described the difference between the almost-right word and the right one as the difference between a lightning bug and lightning.
That’s quite a difference.
George Orwell approached the same problem from another direction. In his 1946 essay “Politics and the English Language,” he offered six rules for writing clearly. Among them: use a short word when it will do the job, cut words you don’t need, favor active voice and skip jargon when ordinary English will say the same thing.
In other words, don’t make the reader work harder than necessary to understand whatever it is you’re trying to say.
Lewis said something similar in his letter to Thomasine. He urged writers to “take great pains to be clear.” His point was one that’s incredibly easy to forget: when we write something, we already know what we mean. Our reader doesn’t.
Jerry Jenkins offers similar advice about keeping our writing simple enough that even a fifth grader can understand it. I love that idea, because writing simply doesn’t mean you have to think simply. Some pretty big ideas can be communicated with ordinary words. In fact, sometimes it takes a better understanding of something to explain it simply.
We know the backstory. We can see the scene. We know why this paragraph follows that one and exactly what we’re trying to communicate.
Our reader only has the words we gave them.
Which makes choosing the right ones pretty important.
If you want to write, read.
Here’s where our writers really start agreeing with each other.
Lewis told Thomasine to read all the good books she could. Decades later, Stephen King made essentially the same point in On Writing: if you want to be a writer, you need to do two things—read a lot and write a lot.
King says he doesn’t primarily read because he’s studying technique. He reads because he likes stories. But learning happens anyway. Every book teaches us something, and he even argues that sometimes a bad book can teach us more than a good one.
And then there’s J.K. Rowling.
On her own website, Rowling says she can’t stand lists of writing “must do’s.” In fact, she points out that Harry Potter broke several of the supposed rules of children’s publishing at the time. But even Rowling, while tossing the rulebook aside, identifies a few things writers probably won’t get very far without.
The first is reading.
She says a good writer needs to be a devoted reader because reading teaches us to recognize what works, what doesn’t, what we enjoy and why. She even acknowledges that young writers will probably imitate their favorite authors at first, and says that’s part of learning until they find their own voice.
Lewis. King. Rowling. Very different writers, very different books, very different generations.
Same advice: Read. A whole lot.
Know when to stop.
Ernest Hemingway adds something a little different to the conversation.
In 1935, Hemingway offered a young writer a piece of advice that seems almost backward at first: when the writing is going well and you know what happens next, stop.
Don’t drain the well. Leave something waiting for the next day.
I like that, because so much writing advice focuses on pushing harder. Write another page. Hit another word count. Keep going.
Hemingway’s advice suggests that sometimes discipline is knowing when not to keep going.
Leave yourself somewhere to start tomorrow.
And then…write like you.
After reading all this advice, I keep coming back to Rowling’s dislike of lists of things writers “must” do.
Because… there’s something a little funny about asking writers how to write.
Lewis wrote like Lewis. Hemingway wrote like Hemingway. Twain certainly wrote like Twain. If any of them had followed someone else’s formula perfectly, we probably wouldn’t still be reading them.
There are things worth learning from people who’ve done this exceptionally well. Read—as much as you can. Listen to your words. Be clear. Choose the right word. Cut the ones you don’t need. Remember there’s a human being on the other side of the page. And when you’re picturing that human being instead of some giant, faceless “audience,” maybe you’ll stop trying so hard to sound like a writer.
Because in the end, the goal isn’t to write like C.S. Lewis or Mark Twain or Ernest Hemingway.
We already have their work.
The goal is to learn everything we can from great writers—and then write like ourselves.
From the Contributor's Dock
Tami Nantz
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Tami Nantz is the Communications Director for The Andy Andrews Group and lives in Greenville, South Carolina, with her husband John and their two German Shepherds.
She began her writing career as a political commentator and activist and has spent more than two decades writing across multiple genres. Tami has ghostwritten for New York Times bestselling authors, contributed work featured on the Jerry Jenkins website, and interviewed prominent voices including Andy Andrews, Vince Flynn, Dinesh D’Souza, and Katie Pavlich, as well as numerous sitting Members of the U.S. House and Senate. Her work has included news coverage, book reviews, human-interest stories, educational and opinion pieces.
Tami is also the author of This Isn’t the Life I Prayed For, a study of the Book of Job written for those navigating unexpected hardship and enduring faith. She continues to produce her own work for publication, blending clear teaching with thoughtful storytelling.
When she’s not writing or editing, Tami can usually be found reading a good thriller or hiking with her family.
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QUESTION 1
The Storyteller vs. The Writer
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